Oct 16, 2016

Lost in Translation

Communication…or should I say miscommunication. In my opinion, it is probably one of the most frustrating things. As adults, we all know those people who can never understand what you are saying, or they completely misunderstand what you were trying to communicate to them. They just stare at you as if you were speaking another language. Most of us have worked with that special someone that can’t seem to comprehend the simplest of tasks or instructions (which you have explained perfectly, of course). It’s just a fact of life that verbal misfires will happen. Everyone’s communication styles are different and it causes major frustration and friction at times.

The same can be said for communicating with our children.  I probably don’t have to tell you that Kids have their own definitions and interpretations of things moms and dads say…Or maybe it is just selective hearing or even flat out disobedience. Whatever it is, it seems that kids hear something completely different than the messages we, as parents, think we are relaying to them. Even on the simplest of things. It just shouldn’t be this difficult, should it? They are just simple requests. 

These are things that are clearly lost in translation at my house!

What Parent’s Say
What Kids Hear

Hurry

Move as slow as humanly possible and suddenly have the dire need to poop.

Stop

Keep doing exactly what you are currently doing.
Clean your room
Put a couple toys away (under the bed) and then make a bigger mess with all the toys you have just found while “cleaning”.

Come here

Don’t come here. Just stay right where you are.
Get dressed

Go upstairs and do everything except actually get dressed.
Get in the car
Go outside and run straight over to the neighbor’s house to see what is going on.

Let the dog outside

Stare at him while he pees on the carpet.
Be quiet

Bang on anything you can find and scream.
Eat

Cry and spit out what is in your mouth. Ask for a snack 10 minutes later.
Hang up your coat

Throw it on the floor 2 feet away from the hook.
Brush your teeth

Squeeze out the toothpaste and smear it all over the counter or eat it.
Close the fridge
Stand there and stare blankly into the fridge without a clue what you are looking for.

No

Probably not really no…It’s a “maybe”. Better ask 10,000 more times.
Get off the computer

Keep playing until your turn is up…even if it takes 10 more minutes.
Don’t tell your brother
Tell him right away…the second you walk in the door. In fact, yell it at the top of your lungs.


What communication issues have you had with your kids?

11 comments:

  1. This is hilarious! I love the 'what parents say' vs 'what kids hear' because it's SO true! Lol

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    1. Why thank you! Darn kids....gotta love them!

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  2. Every parent needs this dictionary!!! Thanks for joining up with #momsterslink

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    1. It is quite helpful! Thanks for reading!

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  3. Haha brilliant! Kids should come with translators lol
    Thanks for linking up to #AnythingGoes :)
    Debbie

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  4. ha ha so true - especially the don't tell part. Never expect kids to keep a secret if you ask them too! #eatsleepblogrt

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    1. They can never keep a secret. Thanks for stopping by!

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  5. HAHAH I absolutely enjoyed the list! This translation is way smart.

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